Aww don't take it personally, Flake.Oh Gawd... now all of my insecurities come bubbling up to the surface--if I am a part of this problem it will destroy me, Hoss.
(If I thought I was causing people to want to not be here... I would throw in the towel in a moment, I do worry so much whether I'm doing enough, or too much, it's so hard to find a balance.)
Chocolates aside, we do love you!