Tell her i miss her, please. Sending her positive vibes.
Wherefore Art Thou.
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Please add my positive vibes. Tell her I miss her messages she used to put on my profile page.
Spideyman please tell Siggy that I miss her as well. I wrote her once but got no reply. I am not good at making small talk I guess.
Do not feel bad, niro - Sig has been dealing with some personal issues and just doesn't feel she can communicate here. I will be leased to pass on your thoughts. We just need to give her time.
...everyone is ignoring the elephant in the room here, and you may all hate me for this-but so be it....Sig needs to apologize to this entire Board for her insensitive remarks, and lack of respect for the Moderators.....she and Muskrat also need to take care of squelching their differences...I'm all for giving someone a pass, but she trampled on our trust and should recognize that and make amends.....
I even have her email address but we do not know each other really well. So I understand very well that she won't have told me about personal stuff that bugs her. (((Siggy)))
You'll get nothing but love from me, Big Guy.
...thank you sweetie.....
No hate, my friend. How could anyone hate you? For looking out for the good of the family here? I have nothing but love and respect for you.
...thank you my dear friend....I say that word only to illustrate that some may resent my words, but so be it-they needed said....and I also wish to say, that in no way is this a dig at my good friend and great lady Maryann who has been keeping in touch with Sig.....No hate, my friend. How could anyone hate you? For looking out for the good of the family here? I have nothing but love and respect for you.
Siggy can have my positive thoughts, absolutely yes, because I will always want the best for everyone, I do. However, my positive thoughts for her right now are focusing on her making positive changes to her attitude, behaviours and responses to others.
Siggy chose to alienate herself from this group based on her perceptions of other people's thinking and attitudes.
She accused us of a racism that was board-wide, which is complete rubbish. She was inaccurate in her assumptions and incredibly rude and hurtful in executing her thoughts.
My personal experience of Siggy has been an up and down emotional ride... I have come to feel that she is only interested in conversing when it suits her. If she is experiencing emotional turmoil, she will make contact and when I have responded, she will often just disappear without further word. Honestly I became tired of this behaviour.
The moderators see a lot of issues on the MB... because we read all of the posts, so I can understand how many of you might not have seen some of the manipulative stuff that we have.
Siggy is welcome back here any time, but personally I do not miss those jibes and (sometimes) subtle innuendo's that were designed to inflict disquiet in the threads.
This is my opinion and I don't speak for the other moderators.
@Spidey... I love you like a second Mom, you know this. And I know that your heart is always in the right place, I just hope you will not be upset by my honesty here.
...very well stated....I also have had experience with her duplicitous behavior and hope she can put herself together again...I also cry pardon if I've offended Spidey...she knows I call BS when I feel a wrong has been done and it has no bearing on her...
...I tella you whatsa wong...I dropped me arrrrrrrr.....Ummm......what's a wong?
That gave me a well needed laugh. Thanks!!
@Flake--- never could I be upset at your honesty. You spoke the truth.
I hope I have not been misunderstood/misinterpreted in my reply post to OoO question regarding Sig. I, too, have had dealings with Siggy-- her making contact, conveying her thoughts, a reply is sent and then nothing more. Yes one becomes tired of that behavior. There are many things I find negative about Siggy.
I was only being courteous to OoO in stating I would pass the message on to Sig, if and when she made contact with me in the future. The same with any others that requested it. This is no way means I condone Siggy's behavior in the past. Please do not think that I do. I find what she did to fellow Tet-Mates and the SKMB unacceptable.
I am thankful that both Flake and Scott have also stated their disapproval of Siggy's behavior and attitude toward the SKMB family. Please do not feel that I condoned nor accept what Siggy has done. I was simply responding to OoO and others.
I hope I have not been misunderstood/misinterpreted in my reply post to OoO question regarding Sig. I, too, have had dealings with Siggy-- her making contact, conveying her thoughts, a reply is sent and then nothing more. Yes one becomes tired of that behavior. There are many things I find negative about Siggy.
I was only being courteous to OoO in stating I would pass the message on to Sig, if and when she made contact with me in the future. The same with any others that requested it. This is no way means I condone Siggy's behavior in the past. Please do not think that I do. I find what she did to fellow Tet-Mates and the SKMB unacceptable.
I am thankful that both Flake and Scott have also stated their disapproval of Siggy's behavior and attitude toward the SKMB family. Please do not feel that I condoned nor accept what Siggy has done. I was simply responding to OoO and others.
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