I myself have been anything but perfect at this site, allowing emotion, presumption and overaction, and sometimes a little liquid incentive, I regret to admit, to encourage me to post things I later wish I could remove. Sometimes someone's having a bad day. Way too often it's simply a deficiency in the ability to communicate very well via text alone. Some things I've written, and which everybody has, have been totally misinterpreted. This is sometimes due to a given poster's writing ability, but more often due to what lacks in text which is ultimately required for good communication, facial expression, the way words are sounded, body language. And sometimes people's personal biases and psychological insecurities effect what they're reading. This happened to me not long ago in a way I immediately realized - someone responded to something I posted showing that they thought I was saying something other than what I meant to - and I fear it happens to me at times I'm unaware of.