Where Have They Gone?

[Out of Order]

Wow - that's harsh. I've had someone just suddenly quit talking to me and I can't imagine what I must have said or done, but yes, that does hurt the feelings. I'm already a bundle of love and feelings - so easy to hurt.
Anyhow - you're awesome Sunny! We all love you.

 

[Sundrop]

How do you unfriend somebody..........?

Anyhow - you're awesome Sunny! We all love you.

Don't go getting any crazy ideas......
I'll send Brains to find you and bring you to me......

 

[Out of Order]

Don't go getting any crazy ideas......
I'll send Brains to find you and bring you to me......

You'll have to find somebody else. I'll know it's him coming for me from the non-trailered boat behind his truck.

 

[Sundrop]

You'll have to find somebody else. I'll know it's him coming for me from the non-trailered boat behind his truck.

I would advise you not to miss that particular boat....

 

[FlakeNoir]

One of the toughest but most rewarding lessons I learned was to not let other people control how I felt. Oh, their opinions are important. We need a yardstick for self-evaluation. And I like to please people, make them happy.

But letting others drive my mood to dark places is giving them a level of control I don't want them to have. So I stopped letting them do that. Mostly.

I'm working on learning to do this, but usually I fail utterly.

 

[GNTLGNT]

I think I get hurt more by the ones who have stayed here, but for whatever reason, unfriended me.....I honestly have no idea what I've done to offend them.
Some of the ones who came back can be hurtful too.....I even messaged a couple of them, and kinda got the cold shoulder. One even said something like "I really don't wanna talk, but it's nice seeing you around"....
I try to just shrug my shoulders and move on, but I still get my feelings hurt.

...I don't get that...if there is an issue with someone-face it head on, otherwise it's just insufferably rude and doesn't belong in the type of tight-knit community this is...and I also feel the pathos of what the others have posted...I know there are doors in all of our lives where friends come and go-but somehow I still held out hope that the best of us would never leave until the clearing called our names...

 

[niro]

...you are right as rain dearheart...there is quite laundry list of those MFB...(Missing From the Board)...

I miss Cowboy. It was nice to read his posts and start learning in the library.

 

[Sundrop]

...I don't get that...if there is an issue with someone-face it head on, otherwise it's just insufferably rude and doesn't belong in the type of tight-knit community this is...and I also feel the pathos of what the others have posted...I know there are doors in all of our lives where friends come and go-but somehow I still held out hope that the best of us would never leave until the clearing called our names...

I don't get it either, but it's true.

On the bright side.....you're stuck with me for the long haul. Hope your insurance is up to date.

 

[GNTLGNT]

I don't get it either, but it's true.

On the bright side.....you're stuck with me for the long haul. Hope your insurance is up to date.

...always a pleasure darlin'...always...

 

[blunthead]

You'll have to find somebody else. I'll know it's him coming for me from the non-trailered boat behind his truck.

 

[blunthead]

I don't get it either, but it's true.

On the bright side.....you're stuck with me for the long haul. Hope your insurance is up to date.

I can't get insurance. Too much pre-existing pore sand.

 

[Haunted]

Transitions are the way of the world. Arrivals and departures. Some are hard to take, but they go on regardless. I got some bad news about a friend yesterday. He died of a heart attack. Aside from the loss and pain within our shared community and his other loved ones (I was friends, professionally, with his wife as well), it brought up memories of my own brush with it and how fleeting this all is sometimes.

You've got a really good heart, Scott.

((((Grandpa))))

 

[arista]

I think that my sadness is when you post someone and no responses. It is kinda of like waiting for a high five leaving you hanging.

 

[Out of Order]

 

[DiO'Bolic]

I kinda like it when people just disappear from here. It makes it more interesting that way.

 

[hossenpepper]

I kinda like it when people just disappear from here. It makes it more interesting that way.

Ok, Prove it. Get lost.

 

[DiO'Bolic]

Ok, Prove it. Get lost.

I said interesting... Not joyous.

 

[Out of Order]

Ok, Prove it. Get lost.

 

[hossenpepper]

I said interesting... Not joyous.

That's what I am saying... I am interested in you disappearing.

 

[hossenpepper]

To the thread... I hear ya Giant. I've tried ad nauseum to get a hold of PatriciaA with no luck. At one point, Tery's daughter went to the store where she worked and was going to try to get a report. I've heard nothing further on that. The others that frequent FB now do so it seems for one main reason: no groups here. Furthermore, having watched a couple of these groups migrate over to FB, it's pretty obvious that not just the groups are important, but controlling the commentary as well. I won't mention names, but someone I like a lot has shown themselves to be a bit over the top with the power to control the group. I noticed a lot of people disappeared when we went to the un-moderated posts. Oh well, such is life.