I knew a guy that was in film school and his teacher showed the class this movie and pointed out all of the things in there that show exactly what you said. Really, the first time the two male main characters meet is in a bar and they lock eyes immediately, just staring at each other from across the bar- they don't know each other at that point? The elevator scene in which Cruise and the lady are alone inside, it's stops on a floor and in steps Kilmer's character. He turns his back to them, without one word being said. Doors close. Elevator doors opens, Kilmer steps out, camera shows his butt as he's leaving (Tom's point-of-view) and Tom says 'Well, that answers that.' or something along those lines anyway. And don't forget all the hot, sweaty men playing volleyball with each other......
Yes!
My husband (and apparently everyone else our age) had seen the movie in the 80s. Last night was my first time and oh my word, the way Tom and Val gazed into each other's eyes...is how my hubby and I look at each other when we want to go at it but we're in public.
Maybe it's due for a modern day remake.